A guy buys a newspaper every day from a newspaper vendor. The newspaper vendor is always rude to him. So a friend of his says, “Why do you buy your paper from this guy? He’s always rude to you. Why don’t you buy it from someone else just next door?”
Says the guy, “Why should the vendor decide where I buy my newspaper? Why should he have the power to decide that?”
Who is managing your life? Who is pulling your strings?