Once the Mullah tried gardening.
He planted all sorts of seeds in his garden
and waited for the beautiful ﬂowers to spring up and bloom.
A few did come up.
But alas, the garden was mostly ﬁlled with unsightly weeds.
They grew more quickly than the ﬂowers.
And they too budded. bloomed. and distributed wafts of seed.
In desperation the Mullah made his way to the palace
to consult with the palace gardener.
This man was known for his skill with plants.
“I have tried everything,” complained the Mullah.
“I pull them out.
l hoe them out.
I plant more flower seeds.
And what do l end up with?
Weeds! Weeds! Weeds!”
The gardener considered all this for a while.
Then he offered his wise advice:
“I think the best thing for you to do …
is learn to love the weeds.”
Source | Margaret Read MacDonald, Earth Care: World Folktales to Talk About
(August House, 2005) page 98
One other version of the story
A gardener took inordinate pride in his lawn was plagued with large crop of dandelions.
He tried get rid of them. He tried everything. Still they returned. Still they plagued him.
Finally he wrote to the local council, thinking that they must have the answer. He listed all the measures he had taken and asked “What shall I do now?” On official letterhead, by return post, the reply came: “We suggest you learn to love them.”
Source | unknown
PONDER AND CONSIDER
“I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.” | Abraham Lincoln
Sometimes in life things don’t turn out exactly as planned. The job isn’t the dream position you’d thought it was. The paradise island turns out to be a bit of a nightmare. Your partner snores at night and leaves the top off the toothpaste. Your team loses in extra time.
You can try to resist, swimming against the tide to make things different. Or, sometimes you can relax and go with the flow. Not give up exactly, just give in to the inevitable. And it’s amazing what can happen. The thing you wanted to change might just end up changing you.
Many grownups hate dandelions. But look at children. Children love them. They like to blow the seeds and see where they land.