TREATING YOURSELF TO AN ICE CREAM CONE

A number of years ago I was driving alone, on my way home from a meeting downtown. It was a sweltering day and I had no air conditioner in the car. I was hot and sweaty. I found myself thinking, ‘Now if I had someone in the car, I’d stop and treat her to an ice cream cone.’ It was a passing thought, nothing more. I kept right on driving — and sweating.

Later, as I reflected on my day, that thought came back to me. ‘If I had someone in the car….someone in the car….’ I suddenly realized that I did have someone in the car: myself! Why, in heaven’s name didn’t I stop and treat myself to an ice cream cone? After all, I’m a person too! (And a pretty nice one, at that.) The incident spoke volumes to me about my lack of self-esteem during that particular period in my life. It was a time when I was doing all kinds of favors for others, but none whatsoever for myself.

Source | Melannie Svoboda, Rummaging for God: Seeking the Holy in Every Nook and Cranny 

PONDER AND CONSIDER

“If your compassion doesn’t include yourself, it is incomplete.”Jack Kornfield
Why don’t you treat yourself to something special today?

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Author: philipchircop

I'm a Jesuit from Malta, an artist at heart and madly in love with all things beautiful and soulful: music, painting, sculpture, photography, film, theatre, poetry, good company, good food, good wine and more. I believe that beauty is a wonderful entry into the mystery of the God “whose centre is everywhere and whose circumference is nowhere.” God can be sensed in all things if and when we engage in a long, loving look at the real that surrounds us. I consider myself a seeker with bottomless curiosity, an eternal student of life, exploring fresh and creative ways to proclaim the Good News in the hope of helping fellow pilgrims and seekers to embrace real and radical changes that will lead to conversion and transformation.

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