WHY ARE WE HERE?

A mother camel and her baby are talking one day and the baby camel asks, “Mom why have we got these huge three-toed feet?” The mother replies, “To enable us trek across the soft sand of the desert without sinking.”

“And why have we got these long, heavy eyelashes?” “To keep the sand out of our eyes on the trips through the desert” replies the mother camel.

“And Mom, why have we got these big humps on our backs?” The mother, now a little impatient with the boy replies, “They are there to help us store fat for our long treks across the desert, so we can go without water for long periods.”

“OK, I get it!” says the baby camel, “We have huge feet to stop us sinking, long eyelashes to keep the sand from our eyes and humps to store water. Then, Mom, why the heck are we here in the Toronto zoo?”

Source: Unknown

CONSIDER THIS

Lent is the time for the desert experience. We cannot all afford to buy a camel and head off for the desert. But we can all create a desert space in our overcrowded lives. We must from time to time return to the desert.

• In the desert we come to know ourselves, our strengths and weaknesses.
• In the desert we will remember who we truly are: the beloved of God, the Source of all. 
• In the desert we will hear our name spoken, we will remember our chosenness, our mission, our calling.
• In the desert we will learn how to wrestle with seeming opposites: the holy spirit and satan, angel and beast, the contradictions that when consciously embraced will make us whole (and holy).

JUST ONE STEP

“I can’t see a way through,” said the boy.

“Can you see your next step?” “Yes.”

“Just take that,” said the horse.

Source: Charlie Mackesy
The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse
(HarperOne, 2019)

CONSIDER THIS

It is easy to become overwhelmed and frustrated by happenings and non-happenings in your life and lose track of the path. It’s easy to fall into a routine and lose heart when faced with challenges, obstacles and the unknown. In such moments, all that one can really do -knowing that the future will unfold no matter what- is to take the next step. “Just take the next step that you can see. “Just take that.”

Remember …

“You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” –Martin Luther King Jr. I Have a Dream speech (1963)

“Every journey begins with a single step.” –Lao Tzu

FIVE LEGS?

Lincoln was trying to make a point. His hearer was unconvinced and stubborn. So Lincoln tried another tack. He said to the disputer, “Well, let’s see now. How many legs does a cow have?” The disgusted reply came back “Four, of course.” Lincoln agreed, “That’s right. Now, suppose you call the cow’s tail a leg; how many legs would the cow have?” The opponent replied confidently, “Why, five, of course.” Lincoln came back, “Now that’s where you’re wrong. Calling a cow’s tail a leg doesn’t make it a leg!”

Source: James S. Hewett
Illustrations Unlimited
(Wheaton: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc, 1988.) Page 483.a.

CONSIDER THIS

How would you describe or define truth?

Spend some time with these two nuggets of wisdom:

“It is a puzzling thing. The truth knocks on the door and you say, ‘Go away, I’m looking for the truth . . . and so it goes away. Puzzling.” –Robert M. Pirsig

“Truth is an eternal conversation about things that matter, conducted with passion and discipline. Truth is the process of inquiry and dialogue itself, that keeps testing old conclusions and coming up with new ones.  It is commitment to the conversation.” –Parker Palmer, The Courage to Teach.

OPTI OVER PESSI

A pessimist read his horoscope. It said, “Make new friends and see what happens.” He made three new friends and nothing happened. Now he complains that he is stuck with three new friends.

CONSIDER THIS

That’s the problem with having a negative attitude. No matter how good something is, negative thinkers will always find something to complain about.

WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS

Long ago, there was a farmer who had problems. He was advised to go and see the Buddha, who was wise and would help him sort his life out. The Buddha asked him why he had come.

“I’m a farmer,” he said. “I love farming, but the problem is that sometimes there’s no rain, and we really struggle those years. Of course, sometimes we have the other problem, and there’s too much rain and the floods destroy everything.” But the man didn’t stop there. 

“I also have a wife, Buddha. I love her, truly, but sometimes we don’t get on. To be honest, occasionally, she gets on my nerves. And my kids! They’re lovely kids. They’re great. Sometimes, though, they misbehave like you wouldn’t believe…”

The farmer went on and on like this. His in-laws were bothering him, he had money worries, he’d often tossed and turned in bed at night wondering about the meaning of life, and his left knee hurt. The Buddha listened patiently, smiled, and simply said, “I can’t help you.”

The farmer was astonished.

The Buddha continued, “Every person has 83 problems, every one of us. And there’s nothing you can do about it. Maybe you can do this or that to fix them, but once one problem is gone, another one springs up in its place. More problems are coming – for example, you will lose your family and loved ones one day, and you yourself will die. That’s a problem you certainly can’t do anything about.”

The farmer, probably beginning to regret his visit, couldn’t help but ask angrily, “Well, I thought you could help! What’s the point of everything you teach if you can’t solve my problems?”

“Well, I can maybe help you with your eighty-fourth problem,” he said.

“Eighty-fourth problem? Well, what’s that?” 

“It’s that you want to not have any problems.”

Source: Peter Hollins
How to Suffer Well
(Pkcs Media, Inc. 2022. Pages 8-9)

CONSIDER THIS

Pain is inevitable. It is an integral part of the human condition. It is our clinging to or resistance to pain that causes us problems.

“Every event has two handles, one by which it can be carried, and one by which it can’t. If your brother does you wrong, don’t grab it by his wronging, because this is the handle incapable of lifting it. Instead, use the other—that he is your brother, that you were raised together, and then you will have hold of the handle that carries.” –Epictetus

“Every problem has two handles. You can grab it by the handle of fear or the handle of hope.” –Margaret Mitchell

YOU CAN STAY AT MY HOUSE

It was Christmas Eve at the famed Riverside Church in New York City, and with William Sloan Coffin, Jr. scheduled to preach, the pews were packed. The Christmas Pageant was on and had come to the point where the innkeeper was to say that there was no room at the inn for Joseph and Mary pregnant with Jesus.

The part seemed perfect for Tim, an earnest youth of the congregation who has Down Syndrome.  Only one line to memorize and he had practiced it again and again with his parents and with the pageant director. He seemed to have mastered it. 

So there Tim stood at the altar, a bathrobe over his clothes, as Mary and Joseph made their way down the center aisle.  They approached him, said their lines, and waited for his reply. “There’s no room at the inn,” he boomed out, just as rehearsed. 

But then, as Mary and Joseph turned to travel further, Tim suddenly yelled, “Wait!”  They turned back startled.  “You can stay at my house,” he called.

Bill Coffin strode to the pulpit, said “Amen,” and sat down. 

It was, as Marian Edelman says, the best sermon he never preached.

Source: Walter J. Burghardt, A Maryknoll Book of Inspiration
(Zondervan, 2002) page 77

CONSIDER THIS

“You can stay at my house.” What does it mean to us?  How has this story, this question, formed you and how you live you life?  How has it influenced how you live and how you treat all those who cross your path? 

What doors might we open this year to make room in our minds and hearts out should and our spirit to invite the love of the Christ Child into our lives more fully?

What doors might we need to open so that we feel less fearful, less anxious, less upset each day? 

What doors might we need to carefully close … perhaps the doors that do not lead us to love, justice, beauty, peace, hope and understanding. 

BLESSING BY SR JOYCE RUPP FOR THE MERGING NEW YEAR

Standing at the Gates of the New Year
Sacred Mystery,
Waiting on the threshold
Of this new year,
You open the gates
And beckon to us:
“Come! Come!
Be not wary of what awaits you
As you enter the unknown terrain,
Be not doubtful of your ability
To grow from its joys and sorrows.
For I am with you.
I will be your Guide.
I will be your Protector.
You will never be alone.”
Guardian of this new year,
We set aside our fear, worries, concerns,
We open our lives to mystery, to beauty,
To hospitality, to questions,
To the endless opportunity
Of discovering you in our relationships,
And to all the silent wisps of wonder
That draw us to your heart.
We welcome your unfailing Presence

And walk with hope into this new year.

From: Joyce Rupp, Out of the Ordinary

TIME AND LOVE

Once upon a time, there was a secluded island where all the feelings lived. Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, Anger, Trust and all the other feelings including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island was going to sink, so they all had to vacate the island as soon as possible or die. All the feelings and company quickly began to prepare their boats to leave as soon as possible. Love was the only one who decided to stay and hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, and Love wanted to leave, it found itself without a boat. Someone else must have taken it. Love, worried, decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by in its most beautiful boat, and Love asked, “Richness, can you take me with you?” Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat and sadly there is no place here for you.”

Next, Love saw Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. “Vanity, please help me!” pleaded Love. “I can’t help you, Love. You are all wet and would damage my boat if I take you in,” Vanity answered. 

Sadness was close by, and Love asked for help once again, “Sadness, let me go with you.” Sadness unwillingly responded, “Oh…Love, I am so sad that I prefer to go alone!”

Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy and cheerful that she did not even hear anything when Love called her!

Love was in disbelief. It was doomed to go down with the island, but then suddenly there was an elderly voice, “Come, Love, I will take you.” When they arrived at dry land, the elder went on her own way. Love, now blessed and overjoyed, forgot to ask the elder her name.

Realising how much she owed to the elder, Love asked Wisdom, another elder, “Who was that who stopped to offer me a ride?”

“It was Time,” answered Wisdom. “Time? But why did Time help me?” asked Love. 

Wisdom smiled and with compassion answered, “Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.” 

Adapted from a story found in
Tequila of Life: Inspirational Sharad Gupta.
(Allied Publishers Pvt. Limited, 2016) Page 41

CONSIDER THIS

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (The Message)

We may not understand why things are unfolding the way they are but we can trust that Time will eventually reveal Love to us.

REPENT NOW

The story is told of a peripatetic rabbi who was walking with some of his disciples when one of them asked: “Rabbi, when should a man repent?”

The rabbi quickly replied: “On the last day of your life.”

“But,” protested several of his disciples, “we can never be sure which day will be the last day of our life.”

The rabbi smiled and said, “The answer to that problem is very simple. Repent now.”

Source: Leonard Sweet, SoulSalsa
(Zondervan, 2002) page 77

CONSIDER THIS

“Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger” or as Leonard Sweet puts it, “Let not the sun go down on your dirt” (see Ephesians 4:26).

According to Leonard Sweet, when the writer of the letter to the Hebrews reminds us to “lay aside every weight and the sin that clings so closely and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us” (Hebrews 12:1 NRSV) he is really saying, “Do the dishes.”

Paul of Tarsus offers the same advice: when testifying to the dirty dishes strewn all over the church at Philippi, he speaks of “forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead.” (Philippians 3:13 NRSV).

THE WEIGHT OF GLASS

Once upon a time a psychology professor walked around on a stage while teaching stress management principles to an auditorium filled with students. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the typical “glass half empty or glass half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, the professor asked, “How heavy is this glass of water I’m holding?”

Students shouted out answers ranging from eight ounces to a couple pounds.

She replied, “From my perspective, the absolute weight of this glass doesn’t matter. It all depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute or two, it’s fairly light. If I hold it for an hour straight, its weight might make my arm ache a little. If I hold it for a day straight, my arm will likely cramp up and feel completely numb and paralyzed, forcing me to drop the glass to the floor. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it feels to me.”

As the class shook their heads in agreement, she continued, “Your stresses and worries in life are very much like this glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and you begin to ache a little. Think about them all day long, and you will feel completely numb and paralyzed — incapable of doing anything else until you drop them.”

Source: Short Stories Of Inspiration & Motivation
Chris Blenning (2018) pages 12-13

CONSIDER THIS

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses and worries. No matter what happens during the day, as early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the night and into the next day with you. If you still feel the weight of yesterday’s stress, it’s a strong sign that it’s time to put the glass down.

“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy.” –Leo F. Buscaglia

“People get so in the habit of worry that if you save them from drowning and put them on a bank to dry in the sun with hot chocolate and muffins they wonder whether they are catching a cold.” –John Jay Chapman

Photo by Nicolas Ruiz

TRY TO LOVE A STONE

Once upon a time, a small Jewish boy went to his rabbi and said he didn’t know how to love God. “How can I love God when I’ve never seen him?” asked the boy. “I think I understand how to love my mother, my father, my brother, my little sister, and even the people in our neighborhood, but I don’t know how I’m supposed to love God.”

The rabbi looked at the little boy and said, “Start with a stone. Try to love a stone. Try to be present to the most simple and basic thing in reality so you can see its goodness and beauty. Then let that goodness and beauty come into you. Let it speak to you. Start with a stone.” The boy nodded with understanding.

“Then, when you can love a stone,” the rabbi continued, “try a flower. See if you can love a flower. See if you can be present to it and let its beauty come into you. See if you can let its life come into you and you can give yourself to it. You don’t have to pluck it, possess it, or destroy it. You can just love it over there in the garden.” The boy nodded again.

“I’m not saying it’s wrong to pick flowers,” added the rabbi. “I’m just asking you to learn something from the flower without putting it in a vase.” The boy smiled, which meant he understood – or maybe he didn’t. Just in case he didn’t the rabbi chose the boy’s pet dog as the next object of loving and listening. The boy nodded and smiled when the rabbi talked about his dog; he even said, “Yes, Rabbi.”

“Then,” the rabbi went on, “try to love the sky and the mountains, the beauty of all creation. Try to be present to it in its many forms. Let it speak to you and let it come into you.” The boy sensed the rabbi wanted to say some more, so he nodded again, as if he understood.

“Then,” the rabbi said, “try to love a woman. Try to be faithful to a woman and sacrifice yourself for her. After you have loved a stone, a flower, your little dog, the mountain, the sky, and a woman, then you’ll be ready to love God.”

Source: Richard Rohr, What the Mystics Know
The Crossroad Publishing Company, 2015

CONSIDER THIS

“If anyone boasts, ‘I love God,’ and goes right on hating his brother or sister, thinking nothing of it, he is a liar. If he won’t love the person he can see, how can he love the God he can’t see? The command we have from Christ is blunt: Loving God includes loving people. You’ve got to love both.” –1 John 4:20-21 (The Message)